i may not live with him or have contact but he still controls me. My above to you is stay strong, know you've done the right thing by reporting your ex and sticking with it do he got a conviction, and you've protected your child by doing this. If you are worried about the safety or welfare of a child, it is important that you report it. If you're in the mood for a fresh start but could use a little help, Queen of Clean Lynsey Crombie's pick of the best tech tools has got you covered. A report of senior abuse was filed against the family for me providing her food medicine and care giving for 5 years including removing the mother from a sexual pervert, with no compensation. they don't precisely enable it. since then there have been 6 malicious and false reports made including me supposedly shaking my baby and hitting my toddler and being a drunk. I'm sure you understand that at the point of receiving the information from nspcc police or social services don't know if it's true or not and it would be a failure of duty to not follow it up. To think this is a bloody brilliant idea?! If there were reports from the school, doctors etc these would be taken seriously and the professionals would likely put their name to them. i should probably add that i already have various support workers and close contact with the HV as the relationship was that violent and horrendous i have been given a lot of support. For more details of these cookies and how to disable them, see our cookie policy. Thousands of parents falsely claim domestic abuse in order to access legal aid and stop estranged partners from seeing their children, a shared parenting charity claims. they are going to intrude -- at last.. call the police. Here's everything you need to know about our fave Brummie! My sister filed a claim of abuse to APS saying I hit her and caused bruises on her arms. It is very common for abusive partners to continue to try and exert control in this way. Our son had spoken at school about the arguments we had had / were having and social services became involved. I guess they need to protect the identity of people who use the form to make genuine reports of abuse. For the purposes of this guidance any reference to rape should be read to include other sexual offences. But constant anonymous reports, while they probably still need to be looked at, ss are well aware of the malicious nature of a lot of them. we see professionals nearly every single working day which is going massively in my favour. By using this site, you agree we can set and use cookies. For any devoted mother with a baby who suffers from colic, it’s a familiar ritual. When is Dermot on This Morning, how did he become famous, and is he married? Can I press charges on the person who did this? The term social service also denotes the profession engaged in rendering such services. A B.C. They overllook it as a results of fact each social workers caseload is a minimum of three circumstances extra effective than it's going to be. I think in this case it might be worth contacting the police with your suspicions. I was falsely accused of senior abuse, but in the end vindicated. The person reported you for a reason and social services feels it's necessary to find out what's going on in your home. Even if you’re not sure, it's always best to tell professionals about your concerns. You only need to have reasonable cause to be suspicious. Are social services sneaky and don't tell you things over the phone I am shocked someone just turned up x Terrorism Analyst Rita Katz falsely reported Friday that a first responder to the Mayfair Mall shooting was the shooter himself in a now-deleted tweet. This is page 1 of 2 (This thread has 31 messages.). No idea if they can be traced though. But he did say that some women also make false reports. I was falsely reported to Child Protective Services. 1 All of them include a penalty for failing to report suspected child abuse. § 422.14 The department shall refer suspected cases of falsely reporting child abuse and maltreatment in violation of subdivision three of section 240.55 of the penal law to the appropriate law enforcement agency or district attorney. I work with adult services not children but I know they get annoyed with similar. My abusive ex has made false reports to SS and NSPCC. Talk widget showing discussions of the day & trending threads, Subscribe to Mumsnet emails direct to your inbox. You say the reports were vindictive and malicious, but not that they were false/lies? They have withdrawn a retraction ["double retraction"]. This does not contact someone at Facebook but gets to the gist of the problem by contacting someone close to you in authority who can act accordingly to resolve this situation locally. If a malicious or false report's made about you. All bollocks as backed up by the nursery and school but incredibly stressful at the time.I stopped contact as it was affecting both my DD's and we've had no (or not been informed) of any reports since. I am angry there's no come back, but then I'd rather the (few) resources went into checking welfare rather than demonstrating evidence of false reporting. especially after the abuse of the past few years. I did my own research found some medication I could take without going down the IVF route and boom my little miracle appeared! But I’ve been reported to the social services so many times it’s awful! Hi, I need some advice Im a single mother of two and fulltime university student over the last 4 years since I moved here from South Africa I have been reported twice for benefit fraud (for working while I was not, and living with a partner which I was not), once to social services saying my children are not looked after, dirty and go knocking on the neighbors doors for food etc. I have to say SS were very good at seeing through it.My ex used to goad me and tell me that SS were going to do a surprise visit even though I was verbally told and had letters to say each case was closed down.I dread to think how much of this shit SS have to deal with rather than real issues. As public bodies are terrified of being lambasted in the media, they can have a tendency to over-react to any kind of concern expressed over a child’s welfare. Everything she would report was fabricated and the social workers knew that, but they don't have a choice but to investigate when they get the calls. It is very common for abusive partners to continue to try and exert control in this way. SS are wise enough to see through malicious reports from an abusive ex and legitimate reports. I am not sure how you will ever be able to find out who is making these calls, as social services will never say. Here's everything you need to know about Alison Hammond's Friday co-presenter. They came to my Moms house and took a report, I told them I was not guilty and had a witness to the incident in question. That means someone, perhaps someone you know, or it could be a stranger, or else an employee of one of the public services like a Health Visitor or teacher, has told the Social Services they feel worried about your child. It does piss me off yes, especially for way it puts people like BCGRMDP through mill when they've already had a tough time. You may be dead: Every year, Social Security falsely lists 6,000 people as deceased Published Thu, Jan 12 2017 9:00 AM EST Updated Fri, Jan 13 2017 11:40 AM EST Tom Anderson @bytomanderson You do not need to be absolutely certain that abuse is occurring. If you know the child’s name and the parents’ names, then you should report that information. Are YOU wanting to report without being traced?I think if it gets bad enough it could be traced. You should call social services anytime you suspect abuse or neglect, even if you aren't completely sure. I am so sorry you are going through this. Both Teddy and his sister Amelia, then six, were taken into emergency foster care. It was - Answered by a verified Lawyer . Police have refuted false information spread in a social media post about an incident which took place in Newbridge on Tuesday, November 10. Can you not report this as harassment since all the visits from police and social workers have been fruitless? She did everything right, but an underlying genetic condition (unknown to Teddy’s parents) caused two small bruises to be left on his cheeks. When is Alison presenting This Morning, how did she become famous, and what are her funniest moments? A little while I had posted that I went NC with Nmom because the final straw was her calling social services on me and lying to them. If you think someone has intentionally made a false report against you or your family, contact the police. If the police agree the person who made the report is harassing you they may decide to investigate. IP addresses can be traced from online forms in quite sure, Its horrible and you shouldn't have to be going through this but try to cooperate with SS, the more you work with them and let them into your home to show you have nothing to hide the sooner they will come to the conclusion that they're malicious allegations and close your case.Sorry you're going through such a difficult thing, hope it all works out. This is a Misdemeanor!!! It's sad and pathetic that some people use their children in this way. what i dont get is why they say they cant trace it and because the forms ahve been done completely anonymously there is nothing i can do about it. They have retracted their allegation; or 3. We had to have a meeting when he made accusations about physical abuse. This is the second time in 2 years she has filed a false report. So even if you find out that what you saw doesn’t meet state criteria, you should still call and let social services figure it out. they have all been made completely anonymously and the maker has not even put their details on the form. A health visitor saw these bruises and reported Gina and husband Joshua to social services, what then unfolded was every parents’ worst nightmare. We use cookies to give you the best possible experience on our website. My neighbors have been harassing us for almost 1 year because they want us to move out of the apartment. Felt ill and warned dp about eating - goes straight to eat it, A 'professionals' meeting about me tomorrow, On a diet and husband refused to bring me food. The social services have flourished in the 20th century as ideas of social responsibility have developed and spread. I have actually reported someone to social services, I didn't have to give my name or anything like. there is a restraining order in place so i feel this is just another cruel way he is getting at me but all the reports have been through the nspcc website without any details left.its just harassment, My abusive ex did this also to me.He did leave his name though.It's awful isn't it.Eventually social services told him to pack it in I think, im so heartbroken hes doing it, having the police banging on my door was humiloating. about anonymous malicious social service reports? If you’re worried that a child or young person is at risk or is being abused contact the children’s social care team at their local council. The thing is BCG the police/children's services can't know which ones are false.It's a massive pain in the arse and stressful but there would be hell on if they ignored something and it turned out to be true.Does it piss you off newday? i also happen to have an ex with a conviction for dv against me last month and the mess that comes from that situation when theres two kids involved.aibu to think these "anonymous" calls can be traced or is there literally no way? This happens a lot.I'm not sure on the stats now but a few years back huge volumes of anon reports turned out to be malicious and usually made by someone well known to the parent/s. It took another five months for their innocence to be proved - they join us now to tell us more about their horrific battle to clear their name. After all someone is wasting police time with this so that is an offence to start with. I was reported falsely to Adult Protective Services for elder abuse, How do they determine my innocence or guilt? 4 years ago. Unfortunately I've not found it that uncommon to get anonymous false allegations made which turn out to likely be from controlling and abusive ex partners or their families. To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewer ads, and support Mumsnet. I'm a social worker. Also ask your friends to social report as well adding to the validity. I've been falsely reported to adult protective services of Arizona, accusing me of abusing my elderly father. 1 3. ecker. social services offered to students, the prevalence of this strategy in high schools, and the agencies that offered these services if students were referred to outside organizations. It … There does not have to be strong evidence in order to trigger a referral to Social Services. … Unfortunately there is a duty to investigate every report so every single one of them get followed up, sorry i meant that my ex was convicted in feb of a serious assault on me. Seven police officers arrived at the door to forcibly remove the sleeping baby from his mother’s frantic grasp. This analysis included an examination of four school characteristics: (1) size, (2) poverty, (3) locale, and (4) graduation rate. oh i fully 100% understand why they have to take the actions they do. Social services have a statutory obligation to safeguard and promote the welfare of vulnerable children and adults and can provide a wide range of services to children and their parents, usually within the own home environment and co-ordinated by a social worker. State laws also may impose penalties on any person who knowingly makes a false report of abuse or neglect. Were the reports in relation to DV incidents with your ex? After every feed, Gina Hodgkins would sit her newborn son Teddy on her lap to rub his back and release any trapped wind causing him discomfort. A health visitor saw these bruises and reported Gina and husband Joshua to social services, what then unfolded was every parents’ worst nightmare. My Solicitor mentioned that he saw it lots and most of the time in cases of DV, anout half of the time when the woman filed for divorce. It hurt me too.All the things he did or said to me this was by far the most hurtful.One report he made he said I was blind drunk and I couldnt be woken when he dropped kids off.Yes I'd fallen asleep on sofa but my dad had dropped me off half an hour before so I had proof.He told ss I was a prostitute and all sorts of crap including I Said no to my ds making an Xbox purchase online.Apparently this was neglect.I would suspect he will get bored eventually. 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